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As with any major student issue or concern,
it is IMPERATIVE that you communicate with yoru
supervisor if you think you have a resident
who is considering suicide. Remember, you are
not a professional! The following is a guideline,
but always remember your job is to REFER!
Many RAs, including myself,
have been faced with situations involving residents
who have attempted or threatened suicide.
It is a tough issue, and following are some
resources to help you help your residents.
I am not an expert, so I will
link to information from those who are.
I will give a few tips though:
- Don't try to take care of it by
yourself! Suicide is a serious
topic, and if after talking with someone who
you think is suicidal, GET HELP!!
- Be UP FRONT! You
won't regret asking straight-forward questions;
you may regret it if you don't.
- Use your resources!! Use
the resources on your campus and in your hall!
You are not the first one to deal with this
situation. Talk to your supervisors,
talk to the counseling center. You should
have covered this in your training.
- Respect the privacy of the resident!
!!IMPORTANT!! You need to tell the proper
professionals in order to get this person
help, but beyond that, don't spread information,
names, etc. Try to quell rumors that
you hear circulating on your floor, etc.
This can be very detrimental to the person's
recovery.
- Be over-cautious!
If they fit the following 3 criteria, seek
professional help immediately!
- Do they have a plan?
If they have planned how they will commit
suicide, what steps they will take beforehand
and so on, they are
serious about doing so.
- Do they have the means?
If they have planned it out, could they
carry out their plan? Have they the resources
required, or means of obtaining them?
- Are they ready to do it?
When do they plan to carry out their plans?
The sooner it is, the more important it
is to seek professional help.
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The
following links come from suicide
@ rochford.org It's a great website
with a lot of great suicide information!
Warning
Signs which could indicate a possible
suicide
What
to do in an emergency situation
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Suicide
FAQ - 14 different questions addressed.
Great resource!!
Suicide...
Read this first!
this page is written especially for those people
contemplating suicide. Read this page!!!
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