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Q.
If you could identify one key
to being a successful RA, what would it be?
A.
Care about your job, and enjoy it.
UC Davis
A.
Give 110%, you will get it back threefold!
Jennifer
Anderson - Southern Methodist University
A.
Set your floor rules right away and be consistant.
It's a lot easier to ease off rules you've started
than to make them more strict as time goes on. Also
show the utmost respect for your residents right
away. This is something you can use later on in confrontations:
"I have always shown you complete respect and
all I ask is to be respected in return."
Leigh
Ann Lorusso - University of Wisconsin at Whitewater
A.
Establishing a good rapport with your residents right
away. That doesn't mean letting them know that you're
really cool and you're never going to write them up.
Rather, it is clearly stating your position and letting
them know the real reason you are there: to help keep
them safe, and to make their experience at college
better and easier. My residents still tease me and
call me their "resource". I guess I used
that word a lot in our first few days, but believe
me, they have taken me up on it! Which brings up another
important point, always do what you say. If you say
you're going to do a lot of fun programs, do them!
If you say you will follow the university's policies
to the absolute letter (which I'm sure EVERYONE does),
do it! If you say you're going to be a resource...be
ready to be one. Respect for what you are doing
is key, and the only way you are going to get that,
is to earn it.
Sara Schaeffner - University of Vermont
A.
Realizing that you DON'T have to do this alone. You
have a HUGE support network that stretches out clear
across campus, not just within your hall, or even
just in Res. Life. It's important to realize that
if you need help, GET IT! Don't muddle through something
just because you're trying to be Super RA--even the
strongest of us need help sometimes.
Amber Benoit - Colorado State University
A.
There are many qualities that a person should posses
to be an effective RA. Instead of choosing just one,
I have decided to discuss two important qualities
that are essential to RA's. One of these is being
assertive. As an RA you are a person and a resident
of your floor as well, therefore you have certain
rights that must be respected. Also assertiveness
is important when confronting bad behavior. However,
there is a big difference between assertiveness and
aggressiveness. Assertive behavior is that which respects
the rights of both you and the person in which the
behavior is directed. Aggressive behavior is that
which overpowers and degrades the person to which
it is directed. People are more inclined to respond
to assertive behavior than aggressive behavior.
Another important quality of a successful RA is to
be yourself. Don't try to be someone that your are
not. This will make you look fake and people will
quickly pick up on that. As a result you might not
get much respect from your residents. However, if
you are week in certain areas (assertiveness, people
skills, time management, etc.) you should take advantage
of the opportunity that you have as an RA and improve
in those areas.
Eric Honeycutt - North Carolina State
University
A.
Exemplify positive behavior.
Michael
Wilde - Concordia College
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