A.
You must
be very frustrated. I was when my residents did the
same thing when I was and RA and Hall Director. There
are a couple of options that you have. The first is
to have a floor meeting to discuss this. I think it
is important for you to tell them that this action is
inapporpriate. Also describe how it makes you feel explaining
the purpose of the bulletin boards and how much effort
you put into them. An additional option is to get some
of your residents to help you with your board. There
will be more ownership on their part and the other residents
may be less likely to tear down the board if they feel
it was made by one of their "peers." I hope
this was helpful. If you have any other questions, feel
free to contact me directly if you have any more questions.
-Gavin Henning
A.
Two quick ideas:
1--Do a board
that is easy to fix. If the board is vandalized, but
no one really notices it because you "recover"
quickly, it may stop on its own. If they get
no thrill from annoying you then they will likely
stop.
2--Choose
a topic that requires their involvement--opinions
from floor members tend to make the floor members
vandalize it less.
An idea that
incorporates both is to do a Current Events board
with the age old agree or disagree format--for the
background of the board, use newspaper either campus
news or national or both. Select a topic that
your residents will have an opinion about. Since
you are in California, you could pick something about
energy or environment since the power shortage is
all over the news.--or if you campus is political,
select a topic like Clinton's Pardons, Estate Taxes,
GW's Tax Cut, Military Spending, Funding the Space
Program, etc.
Put the topic
in big letters either purchased or cut out in red
construction paper, underneath the title separate
the board into 2 columns with a strip of construction
paper (or border) and label the 2 columns Agree or
Disagree or Vote Yes/Vote No, Ethical/Unethical, spend
more/spend less...depending on the topic you select.
Pass out note cards, or attach them to the board so
residents can write out their opinions and have enough
push pins on the board so they can post their opinions.
Residents
are less likely to vandalize something that they can/have/could
participate in.
Please if
you try this, let me know how it works. And remember,
repair quickly and show no aggravation...the vandals
will likely stop once they see it doesn't matter.
Sincerely,
Holly E. Habicht, RLC Georgia Tech
A.
Unfortunately, this happens to often where
residents don't respect their community.
I have a couple of ideas for you:
1. Leave it ripped down but put up a simple
sign in the middle of the destroyed bulletin board
that talks about community and respect. This
sometimes works.
2. Leave it ripped down but try to put paper
"band-aids" on it to show that your bulletin
board has feelings and that you are trying to keep
it up.
3. Take it all down and do not put a bulletin
board up until you can talk to your floor in a floor
meeting to discuss the problem.
4. Take it all down but put up a sign that the
bulletin board is on hiatus until the community can
respect it.
5. Try a new bulletin board entitled "Tear
Me Down" and put up different things that don't
get respect.
I hope that gives you some ideas to motivate you to
address the issue in a very direct way. Good
luck and let me know if I can be of any other assistance.
Ray Gasser
Assistant Director of Residential Life for Student
Development
Indiana State University
A.
Unfortunately respect is not something that can be
just gained overnight, it is a process. One
of the most effective things I have seen an RA on
our campus do was to have those people affected by
the vandalism or problem directly discuss at a floor
meeting, this becomes more difficult if the perpetrator
is a member of a different part of the facility, i.e.
another floor or from outside of the building.
(More info might be helpful in that context), but
nonetheless, an accountability meeting might be beneficial
to the group. The best example occurred when
the students were leaving the
bathroom dirty. After weeks of frustration the
RA decided to invite the housekeeper from the floor
to a floor meeting to discuss how this effected the
housekeeper. The floor got to meet the housekeeper
out of their element, at a floor meeting and discuss
the pride they take in the job they
do. You may want to parallel this idea by having
a discussion with the floor, inviting your RD and
share the fact that this is an expectation of the
job and how you like to have the board look good for
the students.
I am a firm believer in honest discussion and sharing
how people are affected by the behaviors of others.
You might be impressed how a civil conversation with
others might work. There are other ways
to handle this situation, such as not decorating the
boards, etc. But I think leaving a bb
blank only shows that the resident responsible for
ripping them down has "won"... don't
give in. By active in your job and doing the
right thing!
Good luck and keep up the good work!
Tom Ellett - Director of Residence Life
Syracuse university
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